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"Presidents
don't do great things by dwelling on their limitations, but by
focusing on their possibilities. Good leaders engage the world. Bad
leaders entrap it, or try."
-Henry Kissinger |
Hi Folks,

As we approach the holidays of
December, I'm reminded of how dangerous the roadways can be here and
in many parts of the country and the rest of the world. Weather
conditions are subject to change instantly with rain or snow and
freezing temperatures.
Please be careful and drive
defensively. The roadways become more dangerous as increased numbers
of vehicles travel them. Vehicle occupants seeking reunion with
relatives and friends, eager to exchange gifts, hugs and smiles,
sometimes find themselves hospitalized with lifelong complications
resulting from automobile accidents.
Last January, as I was
returning from a visit to a building materials store, rain was falling
and began to freeze. I decided to use the Interstate highway. I
believed it would be safer.
Just minutes from home, a car
spun out on the ice in front of me. I was traveling at 45 mph. I had
left plenty of room between my vehicle and the one in front of me. I
shifted lanes, went around that vehicle, only to come upon another
that was losing control. That one landed in the lane I was traveling.
I attempted to steer around
the car that landed in front of me, but the concrete barrier prevented
me from colliding with it. Unfortunately, I hit the car that had spun
out. My truck was damaged. My neck was sore. I made a report, but the
driver of the other car had no insurance. Therefore, my truck remains
damaged.
Fortunately, I was able to
slow my vehicle and avoid a catastrophic accident. I never expected
this. Nor would you. Accidents happen. Usually, they result from
situations or conditions that are out of your control. Be responsible,
don't drive aggressively or under the influence of substances that
alter your perception, mood or reaction time.
Leave plenty of space between your vehicle and others. Drive a little
bit slower. It is better to arrive late than not at all.
Brain injury does not
discriminate. Regardless of age, ethnic background, female or male,
education level or status in society, brain injury happens.
Please be careful out there
folks. Your life depends on it.
Till next time-
John
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"First, they took the communists, and I did not protest,
since I am not a communist. Then, they abducted the Jews, but I did not say
anything, for I am not a Jew. Afterwards, they arrested the Catholics, but why
should I bother, I am not a Catholic? And when they came to get hold of me,
there was, strangely enough, nobody left to protest."
-Lutheran priest Martin Niemöller from Nazi Germany |
Upcoming Meetings
Meeting and
Social Events
The following meeting
reminders
are provided for your convenience. Please mark your 2005
calendar for each month in advance as an ongoing reminder.
Pittsburgh- first Tuesday
Monroeville-second Thursday
Oakland-second Monday and fourth Tuesday
Indiana Twp.-second Tuesday
Indiana County-third Thursday
Bowling Event- fourth Monday
Brainstormers Email Support Group-24 hours a day, 7 days a week!
Brainstormers Email Support Group
We have two email support
groups you can join. One is through Denise Patterson. Contact Denise at
deenomad@aol.com
to be added.
The other is through Yahoo
Groups. You can join at
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Brainstormers101/
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"Freedom has a thousand charms to show, That slaves, howe’er contented,
never know." -William Cowper |
Internet Support Links
Brain Injury Association of America
http://www.biausa.org
The BIAA website offers contact information for their state
affiliates and other groups that can offer support and information
following a brain injury.
Defense and Veterans Brain Injury Center (DVBIC)
http://www.dvbic.org/whatsnew.html
Neurotrauma Registry links to other brain injury sites
http://www.neure.com/Index.cfm?file=BIlinks.htm
Parents helping Parents
http://www.php.com/include/agency/show_list.php?where_ConditionsID=51
Stand Among Friends SAF
http://www.standamongfriends.org/
Yahoo Group – ABI News 2-U
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/ABINews2U/
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"Truth is its [justice’s]
handmaid, freedom is its child, peace is its companion, safety walks in
its steps, victory follows in its train; it is the brightest emanation
from the Gospel; it is the attribute of God."
-Sydney Smith (1771–1845) |
Using Your Head

The Insurance Institute for
Highway Safety found that 40 percent of the people killed vehicle
accidents were using safety belts, and 35 percent of those killed in
motorcycle accidents were wearing helmets. That means 60 percent of the
people killed in motor vehicle accidents were not wearing seat belts and
65 percent of those killed in motorcycle wrecks weren't wearing helmets.
Some of the people killed in motor vehicle accidents who were not
using seatbelts and those killed in motorcycle accidents not wearing
helmets might have lived if they used these devices.
Brain Injury prevention is the
only cure.
Buckle up and wear a helmet!
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"Children are the living messages we send to a time we will not
see."
-Professor Neil Postman |
Soldiers Return from Iraq With Serious
Brain Injuries
According to the Defense and Veterans Brain Injury Center at Walter
Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, D.C, traumatic brain injury
accounts for at least 14 percent to 20 percent of surviving casualties
during times of combat. Good things like better armor, diagnostic
tools and medical staff who are better trained to determine and treat
brain injuries has meant more permanent head injuries. It is reported
about 65% of soldiers coming through the hospital with wounds have
suffered life-changing brain injuries.
The Brain Injury Association of America estimates that every dollar
invested in brain injury rehabilitation and support saves $35 in
future medical costs. Other than distant VA hospitals for our
veterans, there are few local resources that individuals with a brain
injury or their family members can contact.
Without community-based resources to provide services to the
survivors, individuals with brain injuries are in danger of slipping
through the cracks. Some end up in the criminal justice and mental
health systems, which costs more than paying for community-based
services.
If you are a VA beneficiary or active duty military who has sustained
a brain injury, please register with Defense and Veterans Head Injury
Program (DVHIP) at http://www.dvbic.org/. If they don't know you are
out there, they cannot help you!
http://www.dvbic.org/
Print out the Form from their website and mail to:
Attn: Dr. Deborah L. Warden
Defense and Veterans Head Injury Program
Building 1, Second Floor, Room B207
Washington, DC 20307
Phone:(800) 870-9244 or (202) 782-6345
FAX: 202-782-4400
Attn: Dr. Deborah L. Warden
Brain injury often is called the silent epidemic. There can be
instances where the individual may appear unaffected, but experiences
subtle difficulties cognitively, emotionally or physically.
Related News Links
Soldiers Return from Iraq With Serious Brain Injuries
http://www.pbs.org/newshour/bb/health/july-dec04/wounded2_7-16.html
BRAIN INJURIES LEAD IRAQ WAR INJURIES
http://tbrnews.org/Archives/a1024.htm
Brain trauma takes toll on soldiers
http://www.tallahassee.com/mld/tallahassee/news/world/8766903.htm
The Effects of War—
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder After Traumatic Brain Injury
http://www.neuropsychiatryreviews.com/apr03/npr_apr03_PTSD.html
Walter Reed Treats Casualties with Brain Injuries
http://www.armymedicine.army.mil/news/mercury/04-01/braininjury.cfm
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"It [the antagonism between freedom and slavery] is an irrepressible conflict
between opposing and enduring forces."
-William Henry Seward (1801–1872) |
Client Assistance Program (CAP)
from: http://www.equalemployment.org/
CAP is an advocacy program for people with
disabilities administered by the Center for Disability Law & Policy.
CAP helps people who are seeking services from the Office of Vocational
Rehabilitation, Blindness and Visual Services, Centers for Independent
Living and other programs funded under federal law.
CAP help is provided to you at no charge, regardless of income.
The Center for Disability Law & Policy is dedicated to ensuring that the
rehabilitation system in Pennsylvania is open and responsive to your
needs.
You Can Count on The Client Assistance Program...
* To provide you with information and advice about rehabilitation
programs.
* To advise you of your legal rights and responsibilities.
* To Help you resolve problems that may arise while you are
seeking services from rehabilitation programs.
* To help you pursue administrative and legal remedies to protect
your rights.
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"The whole history of the progress of human liberty shows that all concessions
yet made to her august claims have been born of earnest struggle. If there is
no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and yet
deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground,
they want rain without thunder and lightning. They want the ocean without the
awful roar of its many waters." --Frederick Douglass
(1818-1895) |
Does a Clock Help Make the Most of Your Time?
by
Sarah T. Woolsey
"All the tragedies that we can imagine can be reduced to just one: the
passage of time." - Simon Weil
How long have humans lived by the clock, using a highly quantified
system to chunk up our days? Actually, it's a fairly recent development.
A few hundred years ago with the Industrial Revolution, our modern sense
of time began when factory shift changes were marked by a whistle
calling workers to their jobs.
That's when 'natural' time fell by the wayside. Today, as members of a
complex society with rules and regulations, we've agreed upon a measure
of time that is specific and global. We some times forget that time
hasn't always been so minutely defined.
It seems so normal to us now to live by the clock. Yet when we lived as
hunter-gatherers in caves, time was basic: day, night, moon cycles. Then
along came agriculture: day, night moon cycles, seasons. Things got more
complicated once organized religion was folded in. Now we had weeks and
months - a calendar.
Here is when humans seriously started to quantify time for measurement.
With religion and settled communities, there were specific holidays and
other agreed upon gatherings. Today, time is a globally agreed upon
construct. You can get an atomic
clock. It sets itself by satellite, telling you the *exact* time.
I don't wear a watch, and I have only a few clocks in my house: the
requisite alarm, and clocks for the main rooms. But the time is also
before me on my cell phone, and when I am driving, it is on the
dashboard. At any given moment in the day, whether
overcast or sunny, I could tell you within half an hour what the time
is. Even if it's been quite a while since I last saw a clock. I am so
steeped in the habit of measured time, that it is automatic for me to
chunk it up - whether I want to or not. I can be messing around in the
garden on a long-term project with no place else I have to be that day.
Yet internally, I've kept track somehow, and I know that I have been in
the garden for
about two hours.
Anyway, what is time? In paraphrase of St. Augustine, "I know what time
is until I have to explain it." There is philosophic time and scientific
time, and neither of these are practical. We live on the basis of
perceived time. You've heard the saying,
"Time flies when you're having fun." It is true, and it's because our
experience of time is fluid: how your time passes depends on what you're
doing at the moment. Notice this, and then make the most of it because
there is objective time and perceived time~ Your experience of your life
is based in perceived time. Make each moment the highest possible
quality because only in the moment of NOW ca n you feel fulfillment and
joy.
"Your personal time exists only for you and for as long as you live. No
one will ever be more responsible than you are for the quality of your
time." - Servan-Schreiber.
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Sarah T. Woolsey is a contributing author to Clock News the leading
resource for clock information. Visit Sarah's archive of articles at
http://www.rcclock.com/
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"Paralyze resistance with persistence." - Woody Hayes, football coach |
2005 Fair Market Rents for Voucher Programs
The Four Steps - Info Bulletin #74 - 10/04
Section 8 vouchers have been a hot topic nationally and within the
disability communities. On 10/1/04, HUD published the new Fair Market Rents (FMRs)
for 2005. The FMRs determine the Section 8 payment amounts established by HUD
for your counties and apply to both renewal rents and initial rents for
voucher holders. If you want to know the FMRs for your county by bedroom size,
they are listed at
www.huduser.org/datasets/fmr.html.
Knowing the FMRs, at least for persons who require accessible units in
any federally-funded housing program (public housing, HOME, CDBG, HOPE VI,
etc), is just the FIRST STEP.
As was explained in previous Information Bulletins, your local Housing
Authorities have discretion to set the payment standard between 90 percent and
110 percent of the published FMR. You should make sure that AT LEAST the
payments are set at 110 percent. That is STEP TWO.
For persons who are disabled, the payment standards can go up to 120
percent of the published FMR "as a reasonable accommodation for a family that
includes a person with disabilities." By federal regulation, HUD has this
discretion if your Housing Authority requests an "exception payments" up to
120 percent of the FMR. 24 Code of Federal Regulations 982.503(c ) (2).
STEP THREE is to find accessible units that might accept a Section 8
housing voucher and ask your Housing Authority to request the HUD Field Office
to approve payments up to 120 percent as a reasonable accommodation. Some
Housing Authorities may balk at your request. Tell them EITHER to find an
appropriate accessible unit that rents within the 90 to 110 percent of the FMR
OR approve the reasonable accommodation request.
If, at the 120 percent FMR level, you still cannot find an accessible
units that meets the disabled family's needs, then the HA should request from
national HUD approval of the "exception payment standard amount" ABOVE 120
percent of the FMR - again as a reasonable accommodation. This is STEP FOUR.
How much above 120 percent??? That depends. We suggest that advocates look
around your county and come up with a list of accessible units. How much rent
do they charge? 130, 140, 190 percent of the FMR??
If there are no accessible units, for example, at less than the 150
percent of the FMR, the meaningful access for PWDs requires the FMR be set at
that level. If, however, the Housing Authority can find appropriate accessible
units to participate in the Section 8 program either at less than120 percent
and such units are actually available, then 120 percent might be appropriate.
It is important for advocates to find accessible units that will participate
in the Section 8 program. Many landlords with accessible units might
participate IF they can be paid what their market rent actually is. It is also
important for advocates to not settle for INaccessible units just because they
are within the payment range set by your Housing Authority.
Remember that both the ADA and Section 504 are to achieve equality for
persons with disabilities. Equal choice, equal opportunity and meaningful
access might require- for PWDs who require units with specific accessibility
features - that the section 8 housing voucher payment standard be
substantially higher than the payment standard for non-disabled persons.
Steve Gold, The Disability Odyssey continues
Back issues of other Information Bulletins are available online at
http://www.stevegoldada.com with a
searchable Archive at this site divided into different subjects. To contact
Steve Gold directly, write to
stevegoldada@cs.com
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"Freedom is not worth having if it does not connote freedom to err.
It passes my comprehension how human beings, be they ever so
experienced and able, can delight in depriving other human beings of
that precious right." --Mahatma Gandhi |
INDEPENDENT LIVING CENTERS
Centers for independent living (CILs) are private, nonprofit
corporations that provide services to maximize the independence of
individuals with disabilities and the accessibility of the communities
they live in.
Many
countries have Independent Living Centers. There
are nearly 500 Independent Living Centers in the USA. They are also
known as Centers for Independent Living (CIL's). Many are state supported.
In
the USA, these Centers are funded in part by the Department of Education,
Rehabilitation Services Administration, Independent Living Branch, to
provide, among other things, several core services:
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Advocacy
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Independent living skills training
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Information and referral
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Peer counseling
Independent Living Centers are typically non-residential, private,
non-profit, consumer-controlled, community-based organizations providing
services and advocacy by and for persons with all types of disabilities.
Their goal is to assist individuals with disabilities to achieve their
maximum potential within their families and communities.
Independent Living Centers also serve as a strong advocacy voice on a
wide range of national, state and local issues. They work to assure
physical and programmatic access to housing, employment, transportation,
communities, recreational facilities, and health and social services.
These are just a few of the services offered.
To
find a comprehensive list of the Independent Living Centers visit:
http://www.ilru.org/jump1.htm
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"Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth."
--John Fitzgerald Kennedy |
Free
Support Group Development Tools
Free Help for
anyone Starting or Running Peer Groups
The Ten Insider Tips manual is ready for release. Anyone interested in
receiving a copy of the manual and tools can write to John Pistorius at jp@pabia.org
or call (412) 481-0443 to receive a free CD with the support group tools
created so far. This CD is free, however, while not necessary,
free will gifts are accepted and appreciated.
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"They who would give up an essential liberty for temporary security,
deserve neither liberty or security." -Benjamin Franklin |
Cognitive
Dissonance XVI
Drill Instructor's Attitude Adjuster
The subtitle, “Drill Instructors’ Attitude Adjuster” seemed like a
strong one for this piece. However, this writer believed he could not
change it and maintain the integrity of this series of essays. The title
caused me some dissonance. I wondered why I chose it. As I’ve written
before, this series of essays is an ever evolving work. After editing
each part of the series, I decide, sometimes impulsively, upon a
subtitle for the next
Here I sat dealing with cognitive dissonance. On one hand, I was
bothered by the idea that I did not believe that I knew enough about
drill instructors. How could I write anything about what they do to
adjust the attitudes of recruits? On the other hand, I wondered if
anyone could relate or would even want to relate to the idea. This
caused some stress. It was painful. I wanted to escape the pain. So I
started writing. This essay is a compilation of different writings I’ve
previously penned, research about Drill Instructors and the ideas I’ve
used to ‘sew’ them together. It has served to help me overcome the
dissonance I experienced at the start of this endeavor. And it helped me
to command some negative thought soldiers to line up, single file and
return to their barracks.
Welcome to Boot Camp
The Drill Instructors (DIs) are the first people the new recruits see
when they enter basic training and they remain with the recruits through
training until graduation. Recruits are individually and intensely
directed, instructed and commanded by their DIs from the early a.m.
bugle call of reveille until the bugler sounds out Taps. The DI has the
greatest influence on the recruits during their transformation from
ordinary citizens to soldiers.
The DI is a teacher and guidance counselor. Sometimes the DI is a father
figure or brother. To qualify as a Drill Instructor, one must pass
rigorous performance standards. They must complete an intense training
course. The Drill Instructor serves as a role model for the recruits by
their presence, manner, and professional knowledge. It is their sole
responsibility to take people and transform them into basically trained
soldiers for the branch of service they are enlisted in. They are
literally with the recruits 24 hours a day.
The DI is trained to teach and train the recruits to the best of their
ability. Their goal is to mature them into smartly disciplined,
physically fit, basically trained troops. They thoroughly indoctrinate
their recruits in love of their branch of military service and their
country. They demand the highest standards of morality, personal
conduct, and professional skill.
The DI teaches a sharp focus by being focused. Recruits are trained to
be mentally tough. This is absolutely necessary. Self-confidence is a
must. It permeates all aspects of the recruits’ transition. They learn a
lot about themselves. They learn how to capture their mind, harness
willpower and exert their control over themselves to do anything. They
learn that they have more heart than they might ever realize otherwise.
Drill Instructors teach the recruits discipline through dress code,
physical fitness, mental alertness and a host of other means. Drill is
an important part of military life. Discipline, smartness and teamwork
are goals which are achieved through the process of basic training.
Drill is the most efficient way of moving a number of people from one
place to the next. Instead of having a disorganized group of individuals
ambling slowly, Drill produces an organized, efficient team with a
distinctly defined function and direction. It is an extremely good
exercise in teamwork. This is how attitudes are adjusted. Instead of
focusing only on the ‘self, ’ recruits learn how to think as a team.
Drill teaches recruits to follow directions. Every member of the team
relies on the next person for timing to get it right. There are no
individuals in a team. Everyone performs the techniques, turns and
movements in exactly the same time. All of this teaches recruits to set
aside their personality, indeed, their individuality, for the group. The
confidence, mental fortitude and discipline become lifelong assets.
Honor, courage, problem solving and commitment are also products of the
Drill Instructors’ attitude adjustment process.
Drill Instructors are firm. However, friendliness has been introduced as
a means to moderate firmness. The drill instructor always sets the
example for the recruits. That includes everything from having the best
uniform, to having exemplary conduct and demeanor both in and out of
uniform. Instructors must be loyal to the course. They must appear to
have a unified front in all aspects, at all times. The Drill
Instructor’s voice is one of the key ingredients to his effectiveness.
Commands must be delivered “from the gut” without wavering. This is
another attitude adjustment tool.
Motivation of recruits is the most important aspect of successful drill
instruction. In this context, motivation can be defined as giving the
recruits the chance to succeed to their fullest potential. A drill
instructor accomplishes this by appearing enthusiastic. They set high
standards at the start of the course and relax them slowly so that the
trainees can gain a sense of accomplishment. In short, the Drill
Instructor is the commander of the recruits from the start of day one
through their graduation ceremony.
You-The DI
Drill Instruction is standardized using common sense, simple
interpretations of the principles. DIs must have a positive attitude, be
sincere and have dignity. To be effective, the instructor must maintain
direct, personal contact with the trainee. This is an easy task when you
are the Drill Instructor adjusting your own thought soldiers’ attitudes.
You will speak directly to your troops when using the power statements.
When reciting power statements, use proper and varying volume and pitch
to emphasize teaching points and enunciate your words clearly. No need
to degrade yourself when a setback occurs. Move through set backs with
dignity, knowing that you are learning to overcome the sentries
stationed at the gate to your thought garden. Cultivating and using a
positive attitude becomes easier with practice. This is where repetition
comes into play. Like Drill Instruction prepares men and women to
overcome the enemy as a team, so will your personal Drill Instruction
train your thought soldiers to perform for you.
With the tips I’ve provided throughout the Cognitive Dissonance series
of essays, you can follow a standardized set of instructions. Unlike
military drill instruction, the tips contained within these pages are
not regulations. Instead, think of them as a map or as guidelines to aid
you in the process of overcoming the dissonance causing enemy of your
peace of mind.
You must remain firm all through this process. Wavering is a sure sign
of weakness that will be exploited to your disadvantage. It will serve
to undermine and slow the process. When you find yourself struggling,
wavering or weary; Stop, rest and regroup. Find a source of motivation
outside of yourself. After resting, get back into the battle with
renewed energy. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Know that with
persistence, you will succeed. And carry on.
Become committed to the process of cleaning and clearing your thought
garden. Muster the courage each day to do what it takes to embed new
ideas into your garden. Use the strategies you have learned to solve
this problem. Challenge conventional wisdom. It is honorable to make
positive changes happen from within your thought garden.
Hitting the Ball Outside of the Box
Not long ago, people who experienced paraplegia were limited in their
mobility device options. The cumbersome, chrome steel “dinosaurs” as
I’ve heard them described, were their only option.
For decades, no one even considered other possibilities. However, along
came a man who liked to be able to stand upright after experiencing an
accident that left him with paraplegia. He decided to think outside of
the box so-to-speak. I heard him in an interview tell of how people who
were still able bodied asked him why he wanted to stand. They were
locked into patterns of cumbersome, chromed steel. He wanted a mobility
device that could navigate through small doorways and that would allow
him to present himself eye to eye with other human beings. And he wanted
to golf. The conventional wheelchairs made golfing impossible.
Instead of buckling under the dissonance and accepting the limitations
as they existed, he challenged the conventional “wisdom” and created the
Hi-Rider mobility device. Instead of adapting the whole world to
paraplegia, he adapted paraplegia to the world. Now he uses his idea to
reduce barriers to his full, productive living in society. And he uses
it to play golf.
The company that bought his idea has improved upon the design and
accessories tremendously by listening to the end users. There are
approximately 54 million Americans with disabilities. It has been
estimated that 35% of people with disabilities are interested in playing
golf. The major golfing organizations estimate that if 50% of them begin
playing golf and play one round, it would create more than $344 million
in greens fees and cart rentals. Talk about incentive to think outside
of the box!
The National Alliance for Accessible Golf was created in July 2001 to
address some of the policy issues, increase awareness and encourage
participation of people with disabilities in the game of golf. The
Alliance brings together leaders in the golf industry, representatives
from disability organizations and golfers with disabilities. No one
would have dreamed this possible only a couple of years ago. Someone
changed the attitudes of the entire golfing industry. They used
inclusion strategies, overcame obstacles, and successfully won the
battle. I would be willing to bet that they had to overcome a great deal
of cognitive dissonance during the research and development process.
The vision of the Alliance for Accessible Golf is such that “through the
game of golf individuals with disabilities become actively engaged in
the social fabric of a community, and derive health benefits that
improve quality of life.” What better way to break barriers? This is a
powerful example of how overcoming cognitive dissonance can improve the
lives of millions of people with disabilities throughout the world.
Traveling Light
A hang gliding expert was left with paraplegia after a hang gliding
accident. She was also restricted by the cumbersome, heavy chromed steel
monster chairs with wheels. This caused massive amounts of dissonance.
She fought it by commanding a combination of her experiences.
Using her experience with lightweight gliders, she approached
manufacturers with an idea for lightweight chairs that improved
independence and mobility. Together, they created lightweight chairs
with wheels that greatly improve the lives of people who use them.
My sister-in-law uses one of these chairs with wheels. She was paralyzed
from the waist down after being shot in 1992. The lightweight chair
helped her complete her Master’s program by reducing the barriers to her
full participation in her schooling. She is able to wheel herself to her
car, slide herself in and fold up the chair and store it in her back
seat while she drives using hand controls.
When she found herself sitting out in the aisle during graduation
ceremony as a well-known, self-proclaimed disability rights advocate
gave the Keynote address, she didn’t complain. Even when she had to
figure out a way to get on stage to accept her diploma, she didn’t
grumble.
The lightweight chair made it easier for her to wheel herself around to
the back of the stage as the ceremony was embarrassingly halted to wait
for her to find a way to get up to the staging area. And this was the
school of social work of a prominent Pittsburgh University! They should
know better than to hold their ceremonies in an inaccessible manner.
If not for her lightweight chair, she might not have been able to
participate at all. She was able to overcome the dissonance caused by
the violation of her civil rights through the use of this lightweight
chair. It took deliberate, commanding of her thoughts to fight off the
emotional disturbance caused by the dissonance. She was the DI.
Applying your DI
Maybe you didn’t care to keep your thought garden clean because you were
not taught to do it. Perhaps you were systematically instructed to
enlist these insidious insiders. Or maybe you do want to uproot the
negative thought soldiers stationed at the gate to your thought garden,
but do not know how. In any case, as you realize the need, you must
begin to form mental images of the cleaning process. Imagine yourself
unrestricted by physical bounds, uprooting and raking away the debris.
You do not want to fail at this do you? No, you don’t, or you would not
have read this far.
For example, if you want to lose weight, fight the thought soldiers that
combat you. Having the extra dessert will hurt. Extra helpings are not
Ok if you want to lose weight. You do not need the extra nutrition. If
you believe you do, grab a vitamin. You will not burn off the extra
calories. You will not get sick if you walk. Whatever the hidden soldier
tells you, you are the commander, enforce your position. Dig out the
supporting lies.
Remember that you have planted the negative thought soldiers. Now you
are reaping the harvest. Upon your satisfactory dismantling of these
thought barriers you will find it easier to drop a few pounds and you
will be able to decide to diligently patrol your thought compound,
indeed, your thought garden, and commend the thoughts to obey you. You
have the power.
Next Time: Drill Instruction-Dissonance Reduction Through Orderly
Procession
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Becky Myers
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Denise Patterson and
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for your ongoing coordination of
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Stritmatter
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for your commitment to peer support in
Indiana Twp.
Malin
Lowenadler-Shadel and Lisa Taubman,
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encouragement.
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